How can we forgive others who have hurt us deeply? Pastor John gives three practical suggestions for pursuing forgiveness. Recently a really painful email arrived from a man in England. Here it is. “Pastor John, how can I forgive my parents? I’ve been a Christian for seventeen years but struggle with forgiveness of my parents for my abusive childhood. I know that the Lord teaches forgiveness, as does the Bible in many passages. I’m able to forgive others injustices and wrongs, but I really struggle with memories of my childhood. It brings resentment to mind. “Not only is forgiveness taught in the Bible, but it also says I should honor my parents. I feel like a failure as a Christian. I’m 47 years old with a family of my own, and I feel such resentment, even hate and rage, sometimes at my parents for the physical and mental abuse I suffered at their hands. Please help me to understand how I can get peace over this matter and try to forgive them, a forgiveness that lasts for all time, not just until another memory surfaces.” Episode 1367: https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/how-can-i-forgive-my-parents-for-childhood-abuse Related Resources: “He Killed His Wife and Children — Can He Really Be Forgiven?” https://youtu.be/6GgPCvKcCpY “How Do I Show Kindness to My Children and Expect Them to Obey?” https://youtu.be/BjI9sNy2Lf0 “Have I Really Forgiven Someone If I Keep Remembering Their Wrong?” https://youtu.be/T_8PjAiukH4 “If I Fail to Forgive Others, Will God Not Forgive Me?” https://youtu.be/etAhaFcoB2U Ask Pastor John Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFF7F6AE365DA3564 Find other recent and popular Ask Pastor John episodes, http://desiringgod.org/ask-pastor-john