Pornography distorts our souls. But with the transformation of the Holy Spirit and a hard, honest fight, there is still hope for godly intimacy in marriage. Today we field a question from a listener named Ben. “Pastor John, thank you for this podcast. Beginning as a 10-year-old, I became addicted to porn videos. It was my primary battle for the next seven years. There have been wonderful victories along the way. But I also know these videos are unrealistic and perverse. God’s design for sex must be a lot different than what I’ve seen. But what I have seen is the only model I know. As I look forward to marriage, I fear that what I watched has already patterned my expectations. What advice do you have for me? Is there any hope that I will experience loving, godly, healthy intimacy in marriage? And what can I do now to ensure it?” Read or listen to this interview at our website: https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/has-porn-already-broken-my-future-marriage Find other recent and popular Ask Pastor John episodes: https://www.desiringgod.org/ask-pastor-john